Auntie Bill

A proverb for family gatherings is the story of kindly, but forgetful, old Uncle Bill – forgetful of yesterday’s grocery shopping, of invoice due dates,…

Aging with Joy

As I write, I am waiting for a phone call from a dear friend whose doctor has discovered a possible tumor. This, after she has…

Anti-Aging

At recent meeting of retirees, one member of the group dominated the conversation with tales of woe – all the people she knows (and some…

Keepers of Wisdom

One of the reasons that aging is difficult for many retirees is that our culture undervalues its elders.  The media and advertising hold up images…

No Place for Sissies

 “Old age ain’t no place for sissies” — Bette Davis Ms. Davis was correct, I think.  And yet, even if  we describe ourselves as sissies,…